my two ringgit's worth of opinion

just finished a night around town with nisa and mimi today - it finished around 12am, actually :)


it is just really, really tempting. it is as my roommate once said: when you're single, no one notices you; but once you are attached, proposals and come-ons come from all directions!! i believe this is called the "nuptial glow" or "seri pengantin" in our mother tongue. last time after my first date, i recall nisa said that i seem to have a glow... hehehe... proposals and come-ons aside, i am steadfast in being an attached person because YOU are lovely and accepting and wonderful in every way; i love you so much and i am grateful to have you in my life :) (feel like singing Bruno Mar's Just The Way You Are)


i saw a flyer about "the role of students in curbing social ills and infant abandonment". in my opinion, abstinence is futile. i have seen all sex/shapes/sizes/manner/clique of students, and i am ABSOLUTELY sure that NO student straight, gay or bisexual will say no to sex. we are very hormone-driven in our teenage years. yes we have a rational mind, we have morals and ethics, but i am a REALIST. i believe Glee has touched on this (Rachel lectured the Celibacy Club about this) and i too, speak based on experience. therefore, the way to curb this is to use CONTRACEPTIVES. the spike in infant abandonment around this time is perhaps due to New Year Sex. it's September/October now and babies take nine/ten months to form fully; go figure.


to be smart is to be responsible. you may choose to play the nice secretary or be the naughty nurse, but be sure to PLAY SAFE ALL the time. we weren't taught about Puberty and Anatomy in secondary school for nothing. and to some religious factions, don't talk to me about Contraceptives being haram or anything. they're already having extramarital sex, which is a sin; they might as well stay safe doing it. besides, using contraceptives (barrier methods, especially) is also good for preventing STDs, which is scary.


you want to play, go ahead; what you have in your Book is between you and Him later. but don't drag other people into it by ruining your sex partner's future and bringing an innocent child into a possibly  shameful and doomed existence...